Great Hair 2012: Washington Hair Stylists Speak Out

We asked local stylists about their pet peeves, tips on tipping, and advice on getting the cut you want.

By: Sherri Dalphonse

What’s the biggest complaint stylists have about clients?

Hairdressers say what most irks them is customers who are late or don’t show up for appointments. The owner of a Georgetown salon expressed this common sentiment: “Our salon is really busy, and if a stylist is booked for an entire day and you come in at 1:20 for a 1 o’clock appointment, every client after you will be pushed back.”

Life—and traffic—happens, of course. But next time your stylist is running late, it may not be his or her fault.

Another pet peeve? “What bothers me is if they don’t like something and they go online and blast me,” says the owner of an Arlington salon. “Whether they like it or not, just communicate. We’re here for them. I mean, they’re paying—they should get what they want.”

The Washingtonian has heard from plenty of women who feel that when they do complain, some stylists don’t give them any satisfaction. Some refuse to redo the hair; others try to convince the client she’ll grow to like her new cut or color. Many customers are willing to forgive a mistake if they’re treated well after the fact. Is it a matter of expectations?

Says one stylist: “They come to a high-end salon, or they come to somebody who’s well known, and they expect a miracle.”

Speaking of expectations, what’s the most effective way for a client to describe the cut and color she wants?

Every stylist we surveyed had the same advice: Bring in photos of hair you like—and hair you don’t. Saying you want “blond but not too blond” isn’t helpful without a picture.

Be realistic, too. One pet peeve of stylist JJ Sherman of Leesburg’s Cloud Nine is “when people bring in pictures of styles that are completely different from what they have naturally—like when a person with thin hair brings in a picture of someone with hugely thick hair. We can’t do that without extensions.”

And don’t try to use stylist lingo to describe what you want. Phrases such as bob, texture, layers, long layers, stacked, and gradation mean different things to clients and stylists.

Manuel Solorzano of Manuel Hair Salon in DC has this advice: “Just say you want a look that’s easy to maintain and manage. I tell them, ‘Let’s customize it; otherwise you might not be satisfied.’ ”

How much should you tip a stylist?

The standard is 18 to 20 percent. Part of that might go to the shampoo assistant—ask if it will. If not, you may want to tip him or her an extra $5 or so.

Which brands of shampoo and conditioner do stylists love?

Most recommended whichever product lines their salon sells. But some favorites did emerge. Kérastase is a salon brand many stylists use on their own hair. Most of them don’t like drugstore brands, noting that the shampoos can be too harsh. Many, when pressed, recommended L’Oréal, especially the sulfate-free products for colored hair.

What’s the best thing you can do for hair that most women don’t do?

Regular deep conditioning, particularly for dry hair, say stylists.

“I really recommend doing conditioning treatments once a week, especially if you have thicker hair,” says Sherman. “I usually sleep with a conditioning treatment in. I shower at night, apply the treatment, either put my hair up or put it in a shower cap, sleep, then rinse when I wake up. That helps it get into the cuticle of the hair.”

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