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Dating Diaries Update: The Guys Report Back
Now that you’ve met our daters, we’ll check in with them weekly to see what’s happening in their lives when it comes to romance, chemistry, and maybe even love. What follows below are excerpts from interviews with our daters, so you’ll hear about their adventures in their own words.
Mark Drapeau: I’ve been on several dates this week. The first two felt a lot like business meetings. They were entirely forgettable.
Then I went out with someone who works in finance. She was exotic and interesting. We went from a drink to a nice dinner. I have mixed feelings about whether I want to see her again, but it was a fun time. It just didn’t have that zing. I wasn’t overly physically attracted to her. I might have been more interested towards the beginning. She wasn’t flirtatious. I couldn’t tell if it was actually a date. It’s a feedback loop.
Then I went out with someone who was very exotic and interesting and sexual. She showed up about 45 minutes late. She had this attitude that it’s okay to be late as long as she texted to say she was late. I find that extraordinarily annoying. I’m reasonable, but 45 minutes is too long. I think that set the whole thing off on the wrong tone. I’m big on first impressions. I was waiting at the bar, and I polled my friends by text to see if it was okay to flirt with other people while I was waiting. They said yes. I ended up talking to this other girl and we exchanged phone numbers.
When the other girl showed up, we got along great and had a nice time. We ended up smooching a little bit. I’ll try to see her again. There might be something there. I wasn’t too thrilled about the lateness. If that’s a pattern of behavior, then that would be a deal breaker.
Michael Amesquita: I went on a really cool date to Baltimore for an Orioles game. We’ve talked a few times, but it’s looking like more of a friend thing. She lives up in Columbia and I live in Crystal City. It just sort of played out. A friend of mine wants to set me up with her roommate. We’ll see. My goal is just to date. I’m trying to ask people out and see what happens.
Max Schwartz: I haven’t been on a date in three weeks. I was out of town for a week. We’re launching this new blog at work around the whole financial crisis. It’s unfortunate. I don’t want to become some tech person who is hunched over his computer in the bowels of the building. But that’s what’s happening. I’ve been working 12-hour days and then sleeping. Lucas Wall: Lucas is on vacation.
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You should post the daters pictures next to their dating updates. The visual would make it all more memorable, not to mention interesting.
Posted by: Dear Washingtonian, Nov 12, 2008 08:47:29 AM
Hey Random,
We actually started blogging our dates awhile ago...hence the Orioles game....I think that was in Sept. A great and amazing woman - just not a lot of instant chemistry. Maybe I shouldn’t be so quick to judge....thoughts anyone? We do, however report our weekly dates and hopefully you will see the current ones very soon.
Dating Challenges......bring them on!
-Michael
Posted by: Michael Amesquita, Nov 11, 2008 02:31:33 PM
Hey, be nice. Some people are simply more exotic than others. As for saying "smooching" I was trying to be nice. But screw it - we were making out. Happy now? :)
I agree about dating challenges and other events. As of November 11th, we’ve not done nothing like that. Keep commenting!
Posted by: Mark Drapeau himself, Nov 11, 2008 01:50:00 PM
The Baltimore orioles are still playing? Awesome.
Posted by: random, Nov 11, 2008 09:32:32 AM
Anyone who describes all of the women they like as "exotic" sounds like a big creeper. And anyone, especially people over the age of 13, who says "we ended up smooching a little bit" is weird.
I agree with DD reader, dating challenges!
Posted by: really, Mark?, Nov 10, 2008 02:21:13 PM
boring boring boring boring
way to drop the ball on what could have been a great series!
Posted by: ugh, Nov 10, 2008 01:49:35 PM
I want to see dating challenges
Posted by: DD Reader, Nov 10, 2008 01:07:17 PM
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