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Eleni Engaged: Meet the Bride-to-Be

By Eleni Garbis   Published Wednesday, August 13, 2008

Meet Eleni Garbis, our new Washingtonian wedding blogger! Stories about her engagement and wedding planning will be posted every Wednesday on washingtonian.com.

Since I got engaged in March, my best friend and maid of honor has started asking me, “What are we going to talk about after your wedding is over?” or “What did we even think to talk about before you got engaged?” I’ve been thinking and talking about the wedding pretty much every day. All brides-to-be do, right? (Say yes. Please say yes.) One of the best things about being engaged is sharing the planning with my family and friends. It’s just so much fun.

A little background: My fiancé and I met at Ithaca College in 2002—I was a junior and he was a senior. He was kind of a big deal, in charge of the news at the college TV station, so it took him three months to ask me out on a date. We officially started dating two years later, when I was living in Los Angeles and he was working as a reporter for a TV station back east. It was a very long-distance relationship! Now he works as a reporter in Philadelphia (let’s call him Ron Burgundy), so I’m planning to move there later this year.

We got engaged while we were on vacation in Aruba. For months leading up to the engagement, I earned the title “marriage bully” in our group of friends. I have no comment about this. I knew we would be engaged soon enough (I guess with all the bullying, he knew he needed to propose sooner rather than later), but I did not expect it in Aruba. I rummaged through his suitcase the morning before our trip and texted my best friend, “no ring,” to which she responded, “you’re awful.”

Turns out, he had hidden the ring in my kitchen. I never go in there, and he knows it. He proposed the first night we arrived, as we were walking by the beach. It was quite romantic. He bought a calling card so we could talk to our parents and a few friends, but the card didn’t work and we ended up paying $60 for four phone calls.

For now, I’m living in DC, working at a PR firm in Georgetown, and planning a wedding for next spring. I am originally from Northern Virginia and Ron has family here as well, so it was a no-brainer to get married in DC. Ron has agreed to marry me in the Greek Orthodox Church, even though he’s not Greek (thanks, dear). We looked at several hotels in the area and decided to have the reception at the Hay-Adams because it’s elegant, romantic, and perfect for a small wedding. We also love the fact that the cocktail hour will be on the rooftop terrace, overlooking the White House. The view is amazing!

After Ron and I decided on the Lafayette Dining Room for the actual reception, I went with my parents to have dinner there, get the official “OK,” and meet with Beatrice Kustarz, the incredibly nice catering executive at the hotel. Wedding planner Mindy Weiss happened to be at the hotel that night, doing a book signing for her new “wedding bible.” She gave me a free copy and signed it! This book is amazing. I told Ron that it was 600 pages all about wedding planning and he responded, “That’s ridiculous.” Boys do not understand.

We’ve already chosen a photographer (Steve Canning—he did our engagement photos, too) so the next thing to do . . . dress shopping! I think I’ve waited long enough!

 

Eleni, a local bride-to-be, writes every Wednesday about planning her wedding, which will be in Washington in the spring. 

Comments


In this economy, your priorities seem so skewed. Bullying the poor guy into proposing, rummaging through his luggage (trust, anyone?), and now with the registry caring less about your guests and your fiance and more about you and how much you can get -- is this what Washingtonian is encouraging me to be?

You ask: "I’ve been thinking and talking about the wedding pretty much every day. All brides-to-be do, right?" (Say yes. Please say yes.)

Nope.

Posted by: another bride-to-be!, Oct 01, 2008 10:54:19 AM

The wedding sounds lovely- looking forward to more. And the calling card is such a sweet thought, even though it didn’t work!

Posted by: Livitluvit, Aug 19, 2008 12:08:58 PM

No comment.

Posted by: Jeffy, Aug 14, 2008 04:21:36 PM

You and Ron are fabulous! I cant wait to see the dress ;-)

Posted by: Shannon, Aug 14, 2008 01:47:42 PM

Wow, congrats...I went to IC as well and am marrying an IC alum this September!!

Posted by: Cindy, Aug 14, 2008 06:22:39 AM

I can’t wait to hear the detz!

Posted by: Ava Brady, Aug 13, 2008 04:25:07 PM

Loved reading your story, Good Luck!

Posted by: , Aug 13, 2008 04:23:41 PM

Enjoyed your blog very much. Looking forward to next week’s installment.

Posted by: Momma Rita, Aug 13, 2008 03:29:53 PM

Wow -- What a beautiful couple! Miss Eleni Garbis, you truly have the gift of gab. I plan to read your blog every week. But ummm . . . Are you claiming that you have not yet begun dress shopping?

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Posted by: Brick Tamland, Aug 13, 2008 10:26:05 AM

your wedding is going to be the event of 2009. can’t be missed. (except by a few cough GMG cough)

Posted by: quesidilla , Aug 13, 2008 10:17:12 AM

You are out of your mind. Good stuff, though.

Posted by: The other Gross, Aug 13, 2008 10:16:55 AM

Love it!

I will tell you - post wedding - you really do have to sit down and figure out what you talked about before. Speaking from personal experience - i picked up a new hobby...knitting...

LOVE YOU

Posted by: Jennifer Schildt, Aug 13, 2008 10:09:22 AM

Can’t wait to hear about your adventures in wedding planning. Great blog!

Posted by: Annie , Aug 13, 2008 09:41:55 AM

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