Most brides know—or will soon find out—that it’s the small details that can really make or break planning your wedding. Addressing envelopes and place cards might seem simple enough, but making sure you have guests’ names well organized and spelled correctly will make the process much smoother—and leave you more time to relax and enjoy your engagement! We asked two local stationers, Sarah Meyer Walsh and Erin Miller of Georgetown’s Haute Papier, for their top tips for brides ready to put pen to paper.

1. Calligraphers are busy people. If you want them to address your envelopes or place cards, remember to get them booked as soon as possible. We recommend contacting them a month before you want your paperie calligraphed. And if you haven’t seen their work before, ask if they’d be willing to send you a sample.

2. Looking at a dizzying Excel spreadsheet is quite taxing on the eyes. Prepare your list in Excel, then use Mail Merge to make it a Word document.

Say cheese for the guestbook! [via Nearly Wed]

Bachelorette couple DeAnna Pappas and Jesse Csincsak are thinking smaller.

A new blogger joins the ranks of the DC Nearlyweds. [via DC Nearlyweds]

No spot on the seating chart for one ex-girlfriend.

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Eleni and Ron at their favorite restaurant, Lauriol Plaza.

About a month after Ron and I got engaged, I bought him a book called The Groom’s Game Plan. This handy little guide gives the groom sound wedding-planning advice, such as “Be agreeable and don’t argue with your fiancée about the details.” Some men would be annoyed at such a gift, but Ron is patient with me, so he said thank you and read the book as voraciously as he would, say, a Stephen Ambrose historical work.

After we got engaged, Ron and I had agreed that he would plan the honeymoon. The groom’s guide also suggested that planning the honeymoon is a good way to include the groom-to-be in wedding planning. This was fine by me because Ron and I have the exact same opinion when it comes to vacations—they should be lazy and on the beach with lots of cocktails and good food. More to come on this in a later post.

Ron and I also agreed that he should be in charge of finding a rehearsal-dinner site, which made sense because Ron’s parents will be paying for the dinner. About four months ago, Ron started doing research on restaurants where we could have our rehearsal dinner. Four months later, we still have no restaurant.

A $4,722 wedding? It can be done. And done well.

Inviting guests from overseas? What's the invitation timeline? [via DC Nearlyweds]

One Chicago bride uses her wedding to give others inspiration.

A do-it-yourself aisle runner. [via Weddingbee]

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Eight years ago, Dawn Gibbons’s friends at Chantilly High School told her they’d found the perfect guy for her. They’d met Nick Mitchell at a swim meet and wanted to set her up with him. There was only one problem: Dawn was 15 and not yet allowed to date. So her friends hatched a plan for her to meet Nick, a student at Westfields High School, at a school play—an event that would warrant an okay from her parents.

Dawn’s friends planned the meeting, and she just needed to show up. “When I got there, I saw two guys, and I was hoping the one for me was Nick,” says Dawn, 23. “I can’t remember the play at all, but I remember how funny it was because Nick has a very original laugh. While he was laughing at the play, I was laughing at his laugh the whole time. The scary part was that he laughs exactly like my father—go figure!”

Nick, 23, and Dawn hit it off. Soon after they met, Dawn and a few friends went to see The Mummy Returns. Nick and a friend met them at the movie theater. Despite Dawn’s parents’ rule that she couldn’t date until she was 16, Nick remembers this as their first date. “I held her hand for most of the movie and she leaned her head on my shoulder,” says Nick, an engineer. “Eventually, I built up enough courage to whisper into Dawn’s ear, ‘Will you be my girlfriend?’ On the way out of the movie theater, I snuck a quick kiss in. Not quite romantic, but I figured I’d go for it. From then on, she was hooked!”

Almost a year later, Dawn turned 16 and her parents allowed them to go on their first official date. They got dinner at Wendy’s and saw a movie. Nick’s mom played chauffeur—neither Nick nor Dawn was old enough to drive. “I remember him being so nervous because his mom was driving and asking lots of questions,” says Dawn, a recruiter. “I think we just made small talk. It was awkward all around for us and his mom, so we kept it casual and listened to music.”

The two dated throughout high school. “Friends used to make fun, saying it wouldn’t last,” Nick says. “And family used to say that we were just in high school and it couldn’t be that serious. But the more time we were together, the more I knew I wanted to be with her.” When it came time to think about college, they both chose North Carolina Sate University in Raleigh, where they now live.

Dawn’s grandmother, who met her husband later in life, tells Dawn how lucky she is to have so much time with the love of her life. “People say your twenties are for finding yourself,” Dawn says. “But for me, my twenties are about exploring the world with my soulmate so that when we do settle down we’ll have so much to reflect on.”

A book that cuts through the (wedding) bull. [via Wedding Dish]

Rachel Bilson plays the part of bridesmaid. [via bon mariage!]

Need an instant wedding count-down? iPhone to the rescue. [via The Bridal Bar]

Has groomzilla taken over or is it like pulling teeth to get his opinion? [via Bridalwave]

Twenty years ago, Shayna Stillman was flipping through the September issue of The Washingtonian and stopped on page 306. At the bottom of the page were 41 words that would change her life.

“A TALL SLIM HANDSOME BLUE-EYED SWM—with cheerful disposition, honest, charming, athletic, well-off with varied interests ISO unattached woman under 40 who is very attractive, generous, intelligent, successful, caring with sunny personality who wants to turn friendship into romance.”

After she separated from her first husband, Shayna—a longtime Washingtonian subscriber—would thumb through the personal ads at the back of the magazine. She’d answered a few, but nothing had panned out, so she took a break. But when September 1988 arrived with the fresh-start feeling of fall, she decided to give it another try, and that’s when she found the 41-word ad. “It focused on personal qualities rather than specific likes that generally end up sounding somewhat trite,” says Shayna, 58, who would circle the ads she liked and write a letter next to each, grading it from A to F.

This one got a circle and a big “A.” So she sat down and wrote a letter to the tall, slim, handsome, blue-eyed SWM. She told him a little about herself, her philosophy on life, and how she liked being active and surrounding herself with positive people. She dropped the letter into the mailbox that same day.