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Sex in Washington: How We Did It During the Pandemic, and Where We’re Headed

It’s been a loooong year. But sometimes, somehow, we found ways to get it on. And it’s only going to get better.

Written by Daniella Byck
, Rosa Cartagena
, Mimi Montgomery
and Ellen O'Brien
| Published on June 11, 2021
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About Our Sex Lives and the Pandemic

This article is part of Washingtonian’s June 2021 cover story about sex in and after the pandemic. We chatted with locals about their quarantine escapades and struggles, talked to sex shop owners about the bestselling toys, heard about safer ways to get naked online, examined intimacy through a stunning series of photos, and mused about the future of sex. Dig in here.

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Contents
  1. Everything We Learned About Sex and Intimacy During Covid
  2. Real Covid Sex Stories: Secret Pod Hookups, Illegal Swinger Parties, Lunchtime Sex, and More
  3. Six Pandemic Sex Lives, in Six Stunning Photos
  4. Two DC-Area Sex Shop Owners Are Dishing on What They Saw During the Pandemic
  5. Which Sex Toys Sold Best During the Pandemic?
  6. Meet the DC Entrepreneur Who Launched an App for Queer Naked Dance Parties
  7. Our Pandemic Sex Poll: 700+ Washingtonians Tell All
  8. I Became an OnlyFans Stripper During Covid, and It Did Amazing Things for My Self-Esteem
  9. The 7 Stages of Coupled Covid Sex

 

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Everything We Learned About Sex and Intimacy During Covid

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Real Covid Sex Stories: Secret Pod Hookups, Illegal Swinger Parties, Lunchtime Sex, and More

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Six Pandemic Sex Lives, in Six Stunning Photos

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Two DC-Area Sex Shop Owners Are Dishing on What They Saw During the Pandemic

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Which Sex Toys Sold Best During the Pandemic?

We asked local sex shop owners what Washingtonians went gaga for in lockdown.

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Meet the DC Entrepreneur Who Launched an App for Queer Naked Dance Parties

Sarah Massey’s tech platform for getting naked online safely is now used for all kinds of events around the world.

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Our Pandemic Sex Poll: 700+ Washingtonians Tell All

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I Became an OnlyFans Stripper During Covid, and It Did Amazing Things for My Self-Esteem

A pandemic side hustle turned into more than a paycheck.

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The 7 Stages of Coupled Covid Sex

We cycled through disillusionment…purpose…acceptance. And now here we are. At the end?

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This cover story appears in the June 2021 issue of Washingtonian.

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Daniella Byck
Daniella Byck
Lifestyle Editor

Daniella Byck joined Washingtonian in 2022. She was previously with Outside Magazine and lives in Takoma.

Rosa Cartagena

Rosa is a senior editor at Bitch Magazine. She’s written for Washingtonian and Smithsonian magazine.

Mimi Montgomery Washingtonian
Mimi Montgomery
Home & Features Editor

Mimi Montgomery joined Washingtonian in 2018. She’s written for The Washington Post, Garden & Gun, Outside Magazine, Washington City Paper, DCist, and PoPVille. Originally from North Carolina, she now lives in Del Ray.

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