Daddy’s Game

Mike Wilbon talks about what it’s like turning 50, becoming a new father, and recovering from a heart attack—plus what he thinks of his friend the President, the Redskins, the Wizards, the Nats, Tony Kornheiser, and more.

By Harry Jaffe    Published Wednesday, April 01, 2009

Mike Wilbon has started pumping iron so he can better handle his son, Matthew. At 12 months and 30 pounds, “Little Shaq” is climbing stairs and moving fast. Wilbon might have to add wind sprints to his workouts. Photographs by Matthew Worden.

Mike Wilbon has hit the trifecta of major life experiences. Last year he suffered a heart attack in January; his first child, Matthew, was born in March; he turned 50 in November.

Which might come as a surprise to readers of his sports columns in the Washington Post and fans of his rants and insights on TV. Neither the bad heart nor the son’s birth kept him from being the multimedia Mike Wilbon for long.

Wilbon on hoops, on football, on baseball. “The only sport I don’t cover is NASCAR,” he says.

Wilbon slides his six-foot-two frame into a booth at the Daily Grill in Bethesda. His wife, Sheryl, sits between him and their son, Matthew Ray Wilbon, who occupies the highchair at the head of the table.

“Check out those legs,” Wilbon says. “He weighs in at 30 pounds already. I call him Little Shaq.”

Wilbon was born on Chicago’s South Side. He graduated from St. Ignatius Prep in 1976 and got a journalism degree from Northwestern University’s Medill School in 1980. He came to the Washington Post as an intern and never left.

He started out covering college basketball, then moved on to Major League Baseball and pro basketball. He started writing a sports column in 1990 and still writes at least two columns a week.

Wilbon made his mark on national television when he became cohost of ESPN’s Pardon the Interruption, known as PTI, in 2001. Aimed at young sports fanatics with the attention span of video-game addicts, the daily half hour pits Tony Kornheiser and Wilbon in a face-to-face duel about the day’s sporting events that often descends into a shouting match. A bell rings every few minutes to kill one discussion and start another.

Wilbon also has a contract with ABC Sports to be a commentator on the NBA. His PTI shows are podcast. He does regular chats on Washingtonpost.com.

The Wilbons recently bought a home in Scottsdale, Arizona, where they spend some weekends. They live here in Bethesda.

What was the sporting scene like here in 1980?

Joe Gibbs was on the way. Bobby Ross was on the way. Lefty Driesell and John Thompson were established. They were the mountain lions.

Was Georgetown a basketball powerhouse?

Not yet. Patrick Ewing was being recruited. Everybody referred to Gary Williams as young Gary Williams. He was coaching at American University. His lead assistant was Ed Tapscott.

What about the NBA?

I got here as an intern right after the Bullets won the NBA title. Wes Unseld and Elvin Hayes were still playing. They were exciting. So that was the local scene. It was kind of like it is now.

In what sense?

Washington is a secondary sport city.

Why?

Because it’s not Philly, it’s not Boston, it’s not Chicago.

Do you think it could be?

No.

Why?

Because people here are interested in stuff other than sports. You don’t have a million, 2 million people who have grown up here, who are always here and call it home. It’s always in transition. God knows Detroit’s a great sports city. So are Cleveland and Pittsburgh. Washington is never going to be.

Because the teams aren’t that good?

The teams are much better here than a lot of places. Georgetown’s been in the Final Four and won a championship; Maryland’s won a championship. There are Super Bowl trophies out at Redskins Park.

Why is this not a great sports town?

People here want a show. I’m a Washingtonian in primarily one way: I live for the event. People go to a Redskins game because it’s an event. They’re not like Giants fans. It’s a cocktail party.

I’ll tell you a story. I’m sitting with Ronde Barber at Cafe Milano two summers ago. Clinton Portis comes in. Clinton Portis should be as recognizable a Redskin as you’re going to get. People are whispering—is that Clinton Portis? That’s a Redskin, right? You think [Bears linebacker] Brian Urlacher walks into a Chicago establishment and people go, “Is that Brian Urlacher?”

People will see that coming from me as a criticism. I like the fact that we’re not singularly possessed and obsessed with sports. I like living in an atmosphere where people think and talk about other things—government, politics, and media. I love it; I love living here. When I come back home from New York on a Sunday night after an NBA show, I’m in a place that’s healthier.

You are not tied to your hometown Chicago teams?

I like to visit my twisted existence. You know what I did last summer? I flew to Chicago every other weekend.

Comments


Wilbon needs to know he’s well respected in the journalism community in Washington. He’s a terrific writer and good journalists respect good writers, regardless of the section of the newspaper in which they happen to be writing.
By the way, Harry, good journalists often like to get both sides of a story too, before making a judgment.

Posted by: Kojo, Apr 28, 2009 12:28:24 PM

@Thrasher. Your comments made negative sense.

Wilbon doesn’t fit in with the Post as much anymore. He’s on to "bigger and better" things at ESPN and no longer has much connection with the community or presence as a local voice. That’s not a bad thing. His absence has made room for great writers like Mike Wise, Sally Jenkins and the blogging Dan Steinberg to come to life.

Posted by: Dave West, Apr 16, 2009 10:02:37 AM

I have no major reservations with Wilbon sometimes I do get tired of his happy negro act and his need to patronize colorful Black athletes..

I like his presence on PTI and other venues but I just wish he was not so predictible with his I am one of those good negroes mantra act...

Posted by: Thrasher, Apr 16, 2009 06:56:43 AM

Get over yourself Wilbon! Chicago, a great sports town?!?! I’m not surpsied you’re anti-Washington, pro-Chicago attitude said that. I’m sick and tired of you putting down the DC area sports fan, the DC area drivers and the DC area for it’s handling of snow. We’re just like any other city, when teams are winning, you see attendance and attention increasing, when teams aren’t winning, the opposite occurs.

Posted by: Joe, Apr 15, 2009 09:22:58 AM

And also, when was the last time the Redskins were a decent show? I’m a fan and most of the time it’s painful to watch. The longest season ticket waiting list in the NFL for one of the most boring teams, marinate on that, Wilbon.

Posted by: Chase, Apr 15, 2009 06:30:49 AM

Wilbon, you can’t be serious about Washington fans not being good enough to be a sports town. Philly? That’s a joke, those idiots booed Mike Schmitt, case in point that they do not deserve respect as a sports fanbase. The Redskins fanbase is the most loyal in all of the NFL. ESPN ranked the Steelers higher, yet all of the statistics they provided (consec. sell-outs, season ticket waiting list) showed that the Redskins fans are most loyal. Look at the NBA attendance, we still have a modest crowd for every game, even with the second worst team in the Association. Chicago could care less about basketball, if it weren’t for Michael Jordan they would have never had anything to root for. And, I just read an article the other day that the Blackhawk fans are coming out of the woodwork because they are good again. I’m not saying that Capitals fans are more loyal, but come on, that’s not a loyal fanbase they have in Chi-town. And with Philly, that’s just ridiculous.
The only thing missing in Washington is the college sports. College football is terrible and does Georgetown really have a good fanbase? Maryland is my team but they shouldn’t be considered as a D.C. team.

Posted by: Chase, Apr 15, 2009 06:28:00 AM

Great article, well written..I’d like to see, hear and read more of Wilbon. A true journalist.

Posted by: Terrell, Apr 14, 2009 03:18:54 PM

Great stuff. I hope is health keeps up. I’d like to see 20 more years of Wilbon and his columns.

Posted by: Zuri, Apr 14, 2009 10:48:40 AM

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