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From the Archives: Rethinking Robert E. Lee

On National Flag Day, a look back at the Confederate general considered by some a symbol of slavery and division, who also said, “I wish for no other flag than the Star-Spangled banner and no other air than ‘Hail Columbia.’”

Upon surrendering to General Ulysses S. Grant at Appomattox, Lee returned to Richmond, where Mathew Brady photographed him. Photograph by Mathew Brady/Corbis-Bettmann.

Though steady rain and bursting dogwood promised rebirth, all Virginia seemed gray in that lush spring of 135 years ago.

Spattered with mud, a cluster of weary riders slogged
onto the makeshift pontoon bridge that linked Richmond with the south
bank of the James River. Out front, a gray-bearded officer rode
a drooping gray horse. His uniform was soaked through, and
rain spilled off his war-stained hat. Beneath it, his face was a
portrait of gloom. Yet he sat erect, head up. As he passed
by, some of those watching wept. Then he crossed the bridge
into the ashes of the Confederate capital. When people there saw
him coming, they crowded along his route and cheered him. Many
were blue-uniformed soldiers of the Union.

The day was April 15, 1865. Robert E. Lee was home from the war.

Federal troops and newly freed slaves had cleared
lanes through the rubble of downtown Richmond, burnt 12 nights earlier
Jefferson Davis and his government fled. Through the shambles,
Lee rode slowly uphill, repeatedly lifting his hat to answer
the cheers. Outside 707 East Franklin Street, the townhouse
where his ailing wife had spent the last years of the war, women,
children, and old men thronged to reach out and thank him. He
found it hard to speak. After shaking a few hands, he made a
little bow and backed inside. As he closed the door on the
Civil War, he entered into history, into legend, into what some
insist is mythology.

In less than three years at the head of the Army of
Northern Virginia, Lee’s generalship had produced stunning victories.
By any military standard, he was a hero, the unafraid underdog,
the most admired soldier of America’s fiery trial. His chivalrous
conduct toward friend and enemy, private and president had won
him loyalty at home and admiration abroad. After his surrender,
he set an example of manly acceptance for the defeated South.

Yet in this spring of 2000, nearly a century and a
half after he surrendered his army at Appomattox, Lee is again amid
words and symbols rather than arms. Though he spent far more of
his years in Alexandria and Arlington than in Richmond, the
current dispute is centered in the erstwhile Confederate

While revisionist historians dissect his record, some
aggrieved citizens protest the public presence of his picture there
in the city he fought to defend. After officials appeased
objectors by removing his uniformed likeness from a display depicting
Richmond’s long history, vandals defaced the image of Lee as
civilian that had been substituted. They can see Lee only in
black and white, as a symbol of the old South and slavery.

He was much more interesting than that.

Peace and reconstruction hardly had begun when
those still devoted to the lost cause of the Confederacy set out to
Lee to sainthood. They were not alone. As early as 1867, while
Lee was president of a struggling Virginia college, a New York
admirer wrote a children’s book that raised him to the heights
alongside Santa Claus. It tells how a Virginia girl who lived
near Appomattox witnessed Lee’s surrender. Rushing to him, she
cried, “Oh, General! Oh, General! Has it come to this?”

“The noble old man looked at her for a moment, while the big tears rolled down his care-worn cheek and said, ‘Be reconciled,
my child; the Supreme knows best.’”

After the Civil War ended in 1865, lifelong soldier Robert E. Lee became a college president. He’s shown astride his horse Traveller in 1866, four years before his death. Photograph from Corbis-Bettmann.

The child who heard this story asked, “Did General Lee say that?” Assured that he had, she said, “Well, then, I will try to
say so too, for he is one of the noblest men God ever made. Bless his dear old heart!”

Three-fourths of a century later, the very name of Lee
still carried almost biblical significance among white Southerners,
from elderly ladies to schoolboys. I grew up in southside
Virginia, on Lee Street in Danville, and attended Lee Street Baptist
Church. I wasn’t surprised to hear about the boy who came home
from Sunday school and asked his mother whether General Lee
appeared in the Old Testament or the New. In the fifth grade,
at Robert E. Lee School on Loyal Street, I played Lee in our
Pageant of Virginia, wearing borrowed riding boots and
gauntlets that came up to my elbows. Our Virginia history textbook
was less imaginative than Robert E. Lee and Santa Claus, but it
had much the same tone of reverence.

More sophisticated authors and orators produced more sophisticated versions of what made Lee special.

Virginia-born Woodrow Wilson, ambitious to become
president, said, “We use the word ‘great’ indiscriminately,” for
writers, orators, heroes—“But we reserve the word ‘noble’
carefully for those whose greatness is not spent in their own interest.
. . . Now that was the characteristic of General Lee’s life.”

Former Union colonel Charles Francis Adams Jr.,
grandson and great-grandson of Yankee presidents, said years after the
that 20th-century America desperately needed someone like Lee
as its leader. A noted British military historian called Lee
“undoubtedly one of the greatest, if not the greatest, soldier
who ever spoke the English tongue.” As late as 1989, the Encyclopedia
Americana adopted that language as its own.

Many other soldiers—Rebels, Yankees, and
foreigners—agreed with those assessments. More books have been written
about Lee
than about any Civil War figure except Lincoln. Most have been
praiseful. But inevitably, such uncritical praise provoked

Even before Lee took command outside Richmond in 1862,
there was press and political criticism of his soldiering. It grew
after the war, when politicians and ex-generals clashed over
credit and blame for what had happened. And today, Lee’s heroic
image makes him a target for the idol-smashing so fashionable
among historians, novelists, and moviemakers.

History is in the very soil of the Northern Neck,
the long peninsula between the Potomac and Rappahannock rivers. Three of
the nation’s first five presidents—George Washington, James
Madison, and James Monroe—were born on the Neck within 30 miles
of each other. The only brothers to sign the Declaration of
Independence—Richard Henry Lee and Francis Lightfoot Lee—were
born at Stratford Hall plantation, just down the Potomac from
Washington’s birthplace at Pope’s Creek.

Their family had been a force in Virginia for well
over a century when another Henry Lee won the nickname “Light-Horse
as Washington’s favorite cavalryman. After the Revolution,
Harry married his cousin and became the master of Stratford Hall.
He rose in politics, serving three terms as governor. In
Congress, it was Lee who eulogized Washington as “first in war, first
in peace, and first in the hearts of his countrymen.”

During Harry’s political ascent, his first wife died
and he married Anne Hill Carter of Shirley plantation on the James,
together two of the state’s most illustrious families. Their
youngest son, Robert Edward, was born on January 19, 1807, at
Stratford plantation. His cradle is still there. But when
Robert was barely old enough to store away memories, he left Stratford.

Light-Horse Harry’s potential had seemed limitless,
but he speculated in land and fell into debtor’s prison. He lost
and Mrs. Lee had to take her family to Alexandria, where the
family lived successively on Cameron, Washington, and Oronoco
streets. Harry died in disgrace, leaving Robert fatherless at

Thus, when Robert Lee decided to become a soldier, he
had a family name to live up to—and to live down. Light-Horse Harry’s
military reputation still gleamed bright enough to help his son
get an 1825 appointment to West Point. Four years later, he
graduated without a single demerit. Then he spent 17 years on
routine engineering assignments in the slow-moving “old army.”

Lee’s greatest satisfaction in that long stretch was
personal: In 1831, he married Mary Anne Randolph Custis,
of Martha Washington. The Custis mansion at Arlington, across
the Potomac from the capital, was a virtual memorial to General

For the next 30 years, Arlington was Lee’s home,
“where my affection and attachments are more strongly placed than at any
other place in the world.” Six of his seven children were born
there. This link strengthened Lee’s devotion to George Washington
as model for his own life. As one biographer wrote, “more than
ever had he now a reputation to live up to—the reputation of
Washington, and from this day onwards he became his
representative on earth.”

When Lee departed for the war in Mexico, he carried
Washington’s silver as part of his kit. There, as a 40-year-old captain,
he got his first lessons of combat under two very different
veterans of the War of 1812—generals Zachary Taylor and Winfield

Taylor, “Old Rough and Ready,” was so indifferent to
military trappings that his own troops sometimes mistook him for a stray
farmer. But it was with Scott, “Old Fuss and Feathers,” that
Lee served first under fire and learned to operate on a command
level. Scott loved pomp and glitter but was a bold strategist
and serious student of war.

Campaigning toward Mexico City, Lee became the old general’s most trusted staff officer. Later, Scott would call him “the
very best soldier that I ever saw in the field.”

After marrying Mary Anne Randolph Custis in 1831, Lee lived for 30 years in her family’s Arlington mansion, “where my affection and attachments are more strongly placed than at any other place in the world.” The house is now a memorial to the general on the grounds of Arlington National Cemetery. Photograph from Corbis-Bettmann.

Skeptics of Lee’s character make much of his
thoughts and actions during the slavery debate that led to civil war. As
crisis rose in Washington, he was a cavalry colonel on the
southwest frontier. A strict soldier, he did not air his opinions
in public, but privately he agonized over events that were
tearing apart the country the Lees had served so long.

From Texas in late 1856, he wrote to his wife that
“Slavery as an institution is a moral & political evil in any
At the same time, he deplored the “evil Course” of the
abolitionists. “How long [the slaves’] subjugation may be necessary
is known & ordered by a wise Merciful Providence. Their
emancipation will sooner result from the mild & melting influence
of Christianity than the storms & tempests of fiery
Controversy. . . . “

Lee happened to be on home leave in October 1859 when
an abolitionist band raided Harpers Ferry to incite a slave uprising.
President James Buchanan ordered him to put down the
insurrection. Lee’s force captured the raiders’ leader, John Brown, who
was tried and hanged. But Brown had ignited something that
would end in the death of hundreds of thousands and the liberation
of millions.

Back in Texas, Lee was against the cotton states’
threatening secession. He was devoted first to the land that had
Washington and Light-Horse Harry—the father who said, “Virginia
is my country, her will I obey, however lamentable the fate
to which it may subject me.”

With the Deep South states pulling out, Robert Lee
wrote home that he could imagine no greater calamity than the breakup of
the Union. Still, “a Union that can only be maintained by
swords and bayonets, and in which strife and civil war are to take
the place of brotherly love and kindness, has no charm for me. .
. . If the Union is dissolved . . . I shall return to my
native State and share the miseries of my people, and save in
defence will draw my sword on none.” Later, he wrote, “I wish
for no other flag than ‘the Star spangled banner’ and no other
air than ‘Hail Columbia.’”

Thus he was deeply conflicted when he got orders to return east. As the crisis over Fort Sumter broke, General Scott, himself
a Virginian, called him into Washington.

There at the home of Montgomery Blair, across the avenue from the White House, Lee was offered command of the United States
Army. He refused and returned to Arlington.

Looking out across the city where the Washington
Monument and the Capitol dome still stood unfinished, Lee paced the
from afternoon till past midnight. Only after the Virginia
convention voted to secede did he make the decision to resign from
the army that had been his life. To his sister, Lee explained,
“with all my devotion to the Union and the feeling of loyalty
and duty of an American citizen, I have not been able to make
up my mind to raise my hand against my relatives, my children,
my home.”

The next evening, a message from Virginia’s Governor John Letcher summoned Lee to Richmond.

He could not know when he left his beloved Arlington
that he would never set foot there again. He passed Fairfax, Manassas,
and Culpeper and crossed Bull Run, the Rappahannock and the
Rapidan, undistinguished towns and streams whose names would soon
burn into the nation’s history.

As the train clacked southward, he could rethink all
that had brought him to this trip of no return. Hundreds of other
soldiers also had to choose, but few had historic associations,
family memories, or personal regrets so deep. Better than
most, Lee understood the enormity of the decision he had made.

Wearing a civilian suit, Lee stepped off the train at Richmond, not realizing that the protection of this city would soon
become the great mission of his life.

When Letcher asked him to be major general in command
of all Virginia’s forces, Lee agreed without hesitation. But the honor
did little to cheer him. Soon after, he was asked by Episcopal
Bishop Richard Hooker Wilmer whether he thought the war would
perpetuate slavery. “The future is in the hands of Providence,”
Lee said. “If the salves of the South were mine, I would surrender
them all without a struggle to avert the war.”

In those two sentences, the bishop heard Lee the
religious fatalist, who could lament war and slavery yet leave both in
hands of God, and Lee the traditionalist, who like Washington
believed that the soldier must stand apart from politics. A
British officer maintained that “his subservience [was] more
utter, more abject, than that of any other noted general to any
other Government in history.” Despite it, “what [his] bootless,
ragged, half-starved army accomplished is one of the miracles
of history.”

More than a year of war went by before the real Lee
emerged. In the spring of 1862, George B. McClellan brought his massive
Union army down the Chesapeake Bay to move on Richmond from the
east. Confederate general Joseph E. Johnston withdrew his
defenders mile by mile until he was wounded at the battle of
Seven Pines. Only then, with 100,000 invaders on Richmond’s doorstep,
did Jefferson Davis turn to Lee, who was 55 years old when he
took command of the Army of Northern Virginia.

By first ordering defensive earthworks around the capital, the new commander got nicknames like “Granny Lee” and “King of
Spades.” A young captain named E. Porter Alexander doubted whether Lee was bold enough to lead an army.

A colonel with the captain knew Lee better.
“Alexander,” he said, “if there is one man in either army . . . head and
above every other in audacity, it is General Lee. His name
might be Audacity. He will take more desperate chances and take
them quicker than any other general in this country, North or
South, and you will live to see it, too.”

Within days, Alexander saw it. Lee threw his divisions
into a series of furious counterattacks, driving McClellan away.
grievous losses, he had saved Richmond. Never again would
soldiers wonder whether he was bold enough. The many Southern casualties
that poured into Richmond from those Seven Days battles
influenced rivals and some friends to argue later that he was too

After turning back McClellan, Lee expected that
Union army to join another advancing from Washington. He determined to
first. Sending Stonewall Jackson on a sweeping flank march, he
brought up James Longstreet’s corps alongside, and together
they routed Union General John Pope at Second Manassas.

Reporting to Jefferson Davis, Lee said, “We mourn the
loss of our gallant dead in every conflict yet our gratitude to Almighty
God for his mercies rises higher and higher each day, to Him
and to the valour of our troops a nation’s gratitude is due.”
Thus he spoke after every victory, with never a hint of the
self-congratulation rife among many other generals—but with a
characteristic note of sanctimony, of assurance that he and not
the Yankees was doing God’s will.

To follow up this success, Lee took his army across
the Potomac into Maryland, confident that he could outmaneuver
But by pure luck, McClellan’s soldiers outside Frederick had
found a lost copy of Lee’s complex battle plan wrapped around
three cigars. McClellan moved to confront Lee along Antietam
Creek on September 17, 1862. Their armies surged back and forth
from early morning till near dusk. By the end of the day, more
than 23,000 soldiers on both sides were killed, wounded, or
missing, making it the bloodiest single day in American
history. Only Lee’s tactical skill and the bravery of his outnumbered
troops prevented disastrous defeat.

When that day was over, the Southern army was “worn
& fought to a perfect frazzle,” wrote artilleryman Alexander. He
“No military genius, but only the commonest kind of common
sense” was needed to see that if McClellan had attacked all-out
the next day, he could have “destroyed [Lee] utterly.”

But McClellan did not. If the Union commander was
lucky to have found Lee’s order, Lee might seem luckier to have faced
again instead of some less cautious general.

Lee created his own luck: Repeatedly, he gambled
against heavy odds, and his aggressiveness convinced opponents that he
stronger than he was. He understood that if he showed caution
more in keeping with his true numbers, the war would be short.

That December, looking on as his troops shredded Union
attackers at Fredericksburg, Lee said. “It is well that war is so
else we should grow too fond of it.” He did not habitually
spout pronouncements suitable for framing, but his biographer believed
that sentence “revealed the whole man in a single brief
sentence”—the battle glow instinctive in Light-Horse Harry’s son,
tempered by the brooding understanding of how many men were
still to die.

Lee’s battlefield decisiveness created his “supreme
moment as a soldier” when he defeated “Fighting Joe” Hooker at
In early May of 1863, Lee defied all textbook rules by dividing
his force and sending Stonewall Jackson far around Hooker’s
flank. In the vicious battle, Jackson was fatally wounded in
the moonlit thickets by his own men.

When Lee realized that surrender to Ulysses S. Grant was unavoidable, he said, “I would rather die a thousand deaths.” Photograph from archive photos.

That battle was the summit of two historic military
careers, each lifted higher by the other. The mutual confidence between
Lee and Jackson inspired them to do things together that they
would not have dared with anyone else. The battle was won by
their teamwork, by the determination of their soldiers—and by
Lee’s reputation: The turning point came before the fight was
fully joined, when Hooker in his mind came face to face for the
first time with Lee, and he folded.

Lee’s aide, Major Charles Marshall, was with him as
bedraggled Confederate soldiers surged around their general, cheering
him in the burning woods. Marshall wrote, “As I looked upon
him, in the complete fruition of the success which his genius,
courage, and confidence in his army had won, I thought that it
must have been from such a scene that men in ancient times
rose to the dignity of gods.”

Historians playing psychiatrist suggest that Lee was
so tightly repressed beneath his austerity that in combat his inner self
burst loose and drove him to attack against all reason. But
that implies lack of control, something that even Lee’s critics
rarely perceive. Their most telling example came after the
Confederate high point at Chancellorsville, when Lee launched his
last major invasion of the North.

When his troops bumped into Federals outside the town
of Gettysburg, Lee had no Jackson at his right hand. But he still had
the troops who had fought so magnificently two months earlier.
As he wrote after Chancellorsville, “There never were such
men in an army before. They will go anywhere and do anything if
properly led. . . . “ After two days of pounding, Lee sent
those troops across the open fields in the attack that history
remembers as Pickett’s Charge.

Two of my great-grandfathers were in that charge,
in the 53rd Virginia and the 7th North Carolina. More than once I have
on Seminary Ridge where they spread out before moving across
those summer fields and tried to feel what they must have felt,
seeing the mass of Union battle flags waiting for them behind
the stone wall on Cemetery Ridge, watching the Union cannon
line up hub to hub, waiting. I have knelt behind that wall and
looked back the other way, wanting to see what the Yankees
saw as my grandfathers and 15,000 other Confederates kept on
coming as solid shot and canister tore holes in their long ranks
of gray. I have never been able to do it with dry eyes.

Lee’s critics asserted that on that July afternoon his
army had not been “properly led,” that he should not have attacked
there and then—and hindsight supports them. His assault was
opposed by his balky and argumentative corps commander, James
Longstreet, and then imperfectly coordinated. On the heels of
his grandest victory, Lee’s army was repulsed in the climactic
battle of the war.

He accepted the defeat as his own. To George Pickett,
mourning his division, Lee said, “Come, General Pickett . . . upon my
shoulders rests the blame. The men and officers of your command
have written the name of Virginia as high today as it has
ever been written before. . . . Your men have done all that men
could do; the fault is entirely my own.”

Through July 4, the whole next day, Lee kept his
command in place, organizing his retreat but seeming to glare across at
Major General George G. Meade, daring him to renew the fight.
Even then, Meade refused to follow up with an attack that could
have demolished the Rebel army. The Confederates limped back to

Once again, Lee’s reputation for aggressiveness had
protected his army. But the next spring, Lincoln sent against him a
who saw the hard truth beyond that reputation: After three
years of war, Lee had no prospect of replacing his losses. And
he was hobbled strategically by his mission of protecting

When Ulysses S. Grant came east to take command of Union forces, he understood that Lee’s army, not the Confederate capital,
was his main objective—but the way to get at that army was to drive on to Richmond and pin Lee down in siege warfare.

Grant had little in common with Lee beyond a West
Point education and a high order of generalship. He was short, often
in a private’s coat, wholly without the aura of dignity that
surrounded Lee even in midbattle. He chewed cigars, and sometimes
he drank. But he had a decisive mind, a stubborn will, and a

When Grant started to carry it out in May 1864, Lee
made him pay a terrible price at the battles of the Wilderness and
Court House, near Fredericksburg. In the thickets, Lee had to
be restrained from personally leading troops in a desperate
charge. An anonymous poem told of it:

“There he stood, the grand old hero, great Virginia’s
god-like son/Second unto none in glory—equal of her Washington.” Texas
troops around him refused to go forward until he moved out of
harm’s way; one of them grabbed his horse’s reins. As he watched
them charge, his “god-like calm was shaken, which no battle
shock could move/By this true, spontaneous token of his soldiers’
child-like love.”

Lee’s troops, and poets afterward, may have seen him
as “god-like,” but Grant did not. Instead of pulling back after each
mauling as his predecessors had done, Grant drove on. In a
month, he lost almost 55,000 troops in a campaign that ground down
in the bloodbath of Cold Harbor, outside Richmond.

From there, Grant sideslipped south of the James River and Petersburg. That began the siege of Richmond—and as Lee himself
had said, once that happened, loss of the capital was only a matter of time.

During that last hard winter of war, too late to
change anything, Lee was made general in chief of all Confederate
In Richmond to plead for more supplies, he told his oldest son,
“Well, Mr. Custis, I have been up to see the Congress, and
they do not seem to be able to do anything except to eat
peanuts and chew tobacco, while my army is starving. . . . When this
war began I was opposed to it, bitterly opposed to it, and I
told these people that unless every man should do his whole duty,
they would repent it—and now, they will repent.”

After Lee’s final effort to break out of the
tightening noose, his thin lines were turned at last. On April 2, 1865,
he telegraphed
Jefferson Davis that Richmond must be evacuated. Retreating
westward, Lee groaned to Brigadier General Henry A. Wise over
what was happening to his country. Wise told him, “There has
been no country, General, for a year or more. You are the country
to these men. They have fought for you.”

Two days later, at the obscure village named Appomattox Court House, Grant’s divisions caught up with the disintegrating Army
of Northern Virginia.

From Grant came a note asking Lee to surrender, to prevent “any further effusion of blood.”

Lee at first refused. Then he learned that the Yankees
had circled ahead and cut off further flight. Hearing this, Lee said
to his aides, “Then there is nothing left for me to do but to
go and see General Grant, and I would rather die a thousand

The way Lee surrendered the last remnant of his army has contributed as much to his legend as has the way he fought the war.

Porter Alexander urged him to let his soldiers
scatter, perhaps to fight on as guerrillas. Lee said no; they would
marauders, stealing to survive, bringing on “a state of affairs
it would take the country years to recover from.” Alexander
wrote later: “He had answered my suggestion from a plane so far
above it, that I was ashamed of having made it.”

On April 9, Lee put on his best uniform, with a red
sash and engraved sword. “I have probably to be General Grant’s prisoner
and thought I must make my best appearance,” he said as he rode
toward the front before dawn on that Palm Sunday morning.

Lee met Grant at the home of a Virginian who had moved
away from Manassas to escape the war. Grant, whose toughness in the
West had won him the nickname “Unconditional Surrender,” was
generous at the end. He allowed Southern soldiers to take their
horses home for the spring plowing. At Lee’s request he ordered
rations for the famished Confederates.

Lee returned to his troops. Some were burning their
ragged battle flags rather than surrender them. They crowded to the
and reached out to touch his horse’s flanks as he rode past.
Some started to cheer him, then broke down in sobs. One held
up his arms and shouted, “I love you just as well as ever,
General Lee!” Tears welled in Lee’s eyes, the first those close
to him could remember seeing.

Last April, I walked again over that most hallowed
American ground, when the apple trees bloomed as they did that Sunday in
1865. I wondered what Lee must have been thinking. How far had
these men and boys marched while he rode, day after day, battle
after battle? How many others would still be living, at home in
peace, if he had not held them together fighting for so long?
How many hundreds of thousands of widows and fatherless
children, on both sides, wished now that he and those who followed
his lead had stood by the Stars and Stripes in 1861?

Lee dismounted, beside a great oak where he would tent
for the night, and turned about. “Men,” he said, “we have fought
the war together; I have done the best I could for you. . . .
Go home now, and if you make as good citizens as you have soldiers,
you will do well, and I will always be proud of you. Goodbye,
and God bless you.”

His throat was so full he could say no more.

In 2000, one or more vandals burned an image of Robert E. Lee that was part of a mural in Richmond, evidence of a hatred toward him that coexists with reverence. Photograph by Don Long/Richmond Times-Dispatch.

The next morning, he and Grant had a quiet
conversation on a little knoll between the armies. Grant suggested that
no one
had greater influence in the Confederacy than Lee and that if
Lee advised surrender everywhere, others would comply. But Lee
said he could do no such thing without consulting President
Jefferson Davis.

Grant backed off: “I knew there was no use to urge him to do anything against his ideas of what was right.”

Lee’s chief of staff drafted for him an order to the
army. Lee struck out a paragraph that “would tend to keep alive the
existing between North and South.” Then he signed his final
order, which ended, “With an increasing admiration of your constancy
and devotion to your country, and a grateful remembrance of
your kind and generous consideration of myself, I bid you an

Union officers, friends from before the war, came to
shake his hand. In his tent, he dined on Confederate rations captured
by Federal cavalry, now reissued. Outside, a band played
“Parting Is Pain,” whose words say, “Now the Battle din is o’er.
. . . Useless now, our good swords lie. . . . “

Lee did not want to leave his troops, but he could not
bear to watch their formal surrender, when they marched past their
former enemies to stack arms for the last time. On April 12,
with his closest aides, he started back to Richmond in the rain.

Aside from bearing the weight of his leadership
role, Lee had suffered as much as most ordinary Southerners in the war.
home at Arlington was seized, its grounds turned into a Union
graveyard and a camp for thousands of freed slaves. One of his
daughters died of typhoid fever. One of his sons, the cavalry
general “Rooney,” was wounded at Brandy Station in 1863, then
captured and held prisoner for nine months.

Rooney’s plantation was occupied and ruined. The
oldest son, Custis, was captured in the war’s final week. The youngest,
had fought as an enlisted artilleryman. Lee’s refugee wife,
crippled by arthritis, was threatened by Richmond’s evacuation
fire, then protected by Yankee soldiers.

A few days after Lee returned, the Northern
photographer Mathew Brady persuaded him to pose at the rear of the house
on Franklin
Street. In that likeness, Lee is tired, sunburned, dignified,
but his eyes still show a glint of defiance. He seems older
than his 58 years.

Lee the lifelong soldier did not know after Appomattox
how he would support himself and his family. Richmond friends sent
them bread, milk, and fruit. Lee turned down every invitation
to prosper by his name—to be president of the Chesapeake & Ohio
Railway; to command the Romanian army; to be governor of
Virginia; to write his memoirs—or merely sign them written by someone
else; to be president of insurance companies; to move into an
English manor house with an annual stipend.

That summer he accepted the presidency of tiny
Washington College in Lexington. There, at a school endowed by President
a lifetime earlier, he could help rebuild the Southern youth
that had been sacrificed to the lost cause. His annual salary
would be $ 1,500. James Branch Cabell, a Virginia author noted
for his blistering sarcasm toward others, wrote that “in a
life over-brimming with magnanimities, this was [Lee’s] most
heroic action.”

Controversy over war and reconstruction flared north
and south, but Lee stayed out of it, urging his former soldiers to be
good citizens of the reunited country. To General P.G.T.
Beauregard, he wrote, “I need not tell you that true patriotism
requires of men to act exactly contrary at one period to that
which it does at another, and the motive which impels them,
the desire to do right, is precisely the same. The
circumstances which govern their actions change, and their conduct must
conform to the new order of things.”

On an evening near the end of September 1870, Lee sat late at a vestrymen’s meeting in Lexington’s Grace Church. His last
gesture there was offering $ 55 of his own funds to raise the minister’s salary.

Then he walked home in a cold rain. When he opened his
mouth to say grace at the dinner table, no sound came. He had suffered
a stroke, and for two weeks the town and the South prayed for
his recovery. In his delirium, Lee thought he was back in the
field. He called for General A.P. Hill to move up. He talked
on, in and out of sleep. On the morning of October 12, he said
quietly, “Strike the tent,” and breathed his last.

He departed without writing the history of his army,
which he had wanted to memorialize his brave soldiers. Others wrote
history, and his own. His admirers renamed the college
Washington and Lee and still pay respect to his tomb there. For more
than 60 years, the skeleton of his horse Traveller stood

Why this reverence for Lee persists, when our
country has produced so many other great generals whose wars ended in
would be no mystery to those who knew him. After his death,
they found in his military valise a scrap of paper on which he
had copied a passage that defines a gentleman. Whether he
originated those words or ever repeated them to his students in
his five years in Lexington is not known. But they clearly
speak for him.

They say that a man is set apart by how he uses “the
power which the strong have over the weak . . . the educated over the
unlettered. . . . The forbearing or inoffensive use of this
power or authority, or a total abstinence from it when the case
admits it, will show the gentleman in a plain light. . . . He
can not only forgive, he can forget; and he strives for that
nobleness and mildness of character which impart sufficient
strength to let the past be but the past. A true man of honor
feels humbled himself when he cannot help humbling others.”

In Richmond, Lee’s equestrian memorial has towered
above Monument Avenue for more than a century. Perhaps it will be the
target of those who vandalized his picture. But it is not
marble or bronze that most provokes contrarians who want to diminish
Lee’s place in history. Their inspiration is the monumental
biography by a man who was said to salute Lee’s statue on his
way to work each morning—Richmond newspaper editor Douglas
Southall Freeman.

In four volumes published in the 1930s, Freeman
painstakingly detailed Lee’s life—and minimized his missteps. Freeman’s
for example, lists Lee’s personal characteristics, from
Abstemiousness and Amiability through Good Looks and Humility to Thrift
and Wisdom; of the 150 qualities listed, barely 10 could be
construed as negative. That work won the Pulitzer Prize and has
influenced everything written about Lee since—and more than any
other honor paid the general, it has driven the search for
faults in his image.

During the early years of civil-rights strife, I
worked at the News Leader, which had been Freeman’s newspaper. I didn’t
long; I felt that in Richmond, admiration of Lee and his
soldiers was too often equated with segregationist politics and a
past that was gone forever. They are not the same thing.

The fever of those years has eased only to rise again,
stirred by the flaunting of the Confederate colors. Today’s
provocative flag wavers do not understand Lee any better than
those who defaced his picture. Most Americans who do know him,
in the South and in the nation, see him as a historic figure,
as a decent man and brilliant soldier, rather than as a figurehead
for those who would turn back the clock.

Researchers discover individual letters, sometimes
sentences within letters, that they cite to challenge that version. A
of one of my books wrote that “Lee’s mental and moral confusion
made him a bloodstained traitor, one who did more damage to
his country than any other in the history of the United
States.” Other critics say he was not really against slavery, and
therefore his decision to go with Virginia in 1861 was not as
painful as some who venerated him insisted.

Legally, Lee and hundreds of thousands of others may
indeed have been traitors. Whether that was true morally, under the
of their time, apparently will be debated forever. And Lee
certainly was no abolitionist. The bulk of his writing makes clear
that though he deplored slavery, he saw no better way at hand
and left the matter for God to settle. Remember that as late
as 1862 Abraham Lincoln, soon to become the Great Emancipator,
said that if he could save the Union while keeping slavery,
he would. Like so many lesser men, Lincoln and Lee were
complicated, pulled different ways on different days by roots, duty,
conscience, politics, strategy, all the tides of their time.

The chief finding of military analysts against Lee is
that he was too aggressive, which cost the South thousands of lives.
They say the Confederacy could have fought on much longer if he
had stood more often on the defensive, as he did at Fredericksburg.
But his pugnacity had made him seem dangerous, even when his
army was crippled. Otherwise, McClellan after Antietam or Meade
after Gettysburg might well have crushed his army and shortened
the war by many months. In posterity as in battle, Lee’s main
contender for honors was Grant—yet there was no bloodier
example of unwise attack than Grant’s 1864 assault on Lee’s lines
at Cold Harbor. Both commanders were superb generals. Neither
was perfect.

The idea of Lee as godlike hero is what rival generals
resented and revisionist historians challenge today. As one who
boots to pretend to be Lee when I was ten, who as student,
infantryman, and writer has imagined walking with him for many
years since, I consider their criticisms a needed antidote to
the legend of his perfection. Those diligently discovered flaws
round out the whole truth of Lee’s stature as man and as
soldier. He had flaws because he was not a god but a complex human
being, torn within himself as tragically as the families whose
sons separated to fight for North and South—caught with his
country in the pivotal moment of American history.

Ernest B. “Pat” Furgurson is the author of several books on the Civil War, including Chancellorsville 1863: The Souls of the Brave and Freedom Rising: Washington in the Civil War.
This story appeared in the April 2000 issue of The Washingtonian.