When it comes to that first holiday gift for your new lady friend, your pick can say a lot about the relationship—which is why you have to choose wisely. Go for something generic and you risk your girl thinking you’re not that into her. Gift an overly personal present and risk looking like you’re moving too fast. Seems tricky, right? Don’t worry, we did all the legwork for you and found 20 great gifts for your new girlfriend. The slideshow awaits.